In a rare move among Democrats, Southampton Town Councilman Michael Iasilli is taking a stand against political violence following the fatal shooting of conservative activist Charlie Kirk.
Iasilli introduced legislation in his honor—and for all victims of political violence—to foster civility and respect in political discourse. Drawing on the bipartisan Commitment to Civility, signed by 120 members of Congress in 2017, the councilman adapted the principles for local government.
“Even on the local level, we can make a difference,” said Iasilli, who was also motivated by the murder of Minnesota State Legislator Melissa Hortman. “I am devastated and shocked at how I feel over a person I didn’t follow closely, nor did I agree with on most issues. The shock and horror of the events on September 10th prompts us to re-commit ourselves to freedom and civility.”
The legislation encourages elected officials to pledge mutual respect and cooperation regardless of political affiliation. “Our common aims are to serve the needs of the people of the Town of Southampton, to work with one another and the leaders of our respective parties to encourage confidence in our organizations, and to set an example for younger generations,” the resolution states.
It emphasizes that political rivals are colleagues, neighbors, and friends, not enemies. “My sincerest condolences are with Kirk’s family. May we all find a path toward peace within the work we do,” he said.
By memorializing the commitment to civility, Iasilli hopes to create a local model for lowering political temperature and enhancing dialogue. Leaders can be cooperative without compromising principles, and fostering mutual understanding can restore public trust while improving government efficiency.
Iasilli’s action comes as the nation grapples with heightened partisan tensions and politically motivated violence. “Though we may disagree on law and policy, we must learn to disagree better,” the resolution reads, citing Kirk and Hortman as inspirations for renewed civility.