In a rare move among Democrats, Southampton Town Councilman Michael Iasilli is taking a stand against political violence in the wake of the fatal shooting of conservative activist Charlie Kirk.
Iasilli introduced legislation in his honor—and for all victims of political violence—to foster civility and respect in political discourse. Drawing on the bipartisan Commitment to Civility, signed by 120 members of Congress in 2017, the councilman adapted the principles for local government.
“Even on the local level, we can make a difference,” said Iasilli, who was also motivated to speak out by the murder of Minnesota State Legislator Melissa Hortman. “I am devastated and shocked at how I am left feeling over a person whom I didn’t follow too closely, nor did I agree with on most issues. That said, the shock and horror of the events that we all witnessed on September 10th prompts us to collectively re-commit ourselves to freedom and civility.”
The legislation encourages elected officials to pledge mutual respect and cooperation regardless of political affiliation. “Our common and sincere aims are to serve the needs and interests of the people of the Town of Southampton, to work with one another and the leaders of our respective parties to encourage greater confidence in our organizations, and to set an example for younger generations that will follow,” the resolution states.
It also emphasizes that political rivals are colleagues, neighbors, and friends, not enemies. “My sincerest condolences are with Kirk’s family. May we all find a path toward peace within the work we do,” he said.
By memorializing the commitment to civility, the councilman hopes to create a local model for lowering political temperature and enhancing dialogue. The legislation outlines that leaders can be cooperative without compromising their principles, and that fostering mutual understanding can restore public trust while improving government efficiency.
Iasilli’s action comes as the nation grapples with heightened partisan tensions and a spate of politically motivated violence. “Though we may disagree on matters of law and policy, we must learn to disagree better,” the resolution reads, citing Kirk and Hortman as inspirations for renewed civility.